LESBIAN SEX 101: RUBBING, BANGING, LICKING, GRINDING, FUCKING

LESBIAN SEX 101: RUBBING, BANGING, LICKING, GRINDING, FUCKING

So how do lesbians have sex. I mean really, without penetration, are they really gettin' it on? And doesn't a guy just do it better? (HELL NO!!)

Well here goes. Lesbian sex. How are we getting off and how are we really having sex. Let's start with the clit. I think with my clit, I talk with my clit, I dream about my clit...I found my clit when I was 7 and been touchin it ever since. My clit gets me off, not my hole. So, it's a wonder why I don't need penetration at all.

Here's a quick summary of how Lez's get down. From 1st base to a Home run.

RUBBING
Getting your clit rubbed by another girl is foreplay. Yes, you can orgasm off of it, but since most of us can have more than one orgasm anyways, it's still just foreplay. Rubbing is like 1st base in the Lesbian Sex World.

BANGING
Banging is penetration. But, I cannot cum from penetration alone. And the person doing the banging can't really orgasm in their finger, so this isn't sex either. It's not mutually orgasmic. It can and does feel very good and in-fact if you mix it with Rubbing you can make for a fun fun time. Some LUCKY girls can cum from banging alone, but I imagine these girls also like being with boys since that is all they need. Banging to lesbians is like 2nd base :)

LICKING

Still not sex. Not even if you 69 it. But it sho is fun! It is still just oral sex and is awesome to sync your orgasms at the same time. My favorite licking position is when someone mounts my face and rubs their clit on my face or "rides my face" orrrrr when I ride theirs. But it can be a lot of work being the rider, so make sure your stamina is UP UP UP. Also, again you can mix this with banging if you're really coordinated and this is like 3rd base :)

GRINDING

This is the epitome of Lesbian sex. This is how we have sex. And if it's not..oh my fellow Lezzy it should be. If you haven't tried it, your life really, truly isn't complete until you do. This should encompass every Lesbian relationship, yet there are still so many Lesbians who are yet to try it. I dunno if it is because it can be awkward positioning your legs like scissors in and through your girl's legs...or maybe because it feels soooooo good and intense that it scares people...but nothing is better than rubbing your tickle box on your lez lover's tickle box and cumming at the same time. It doesn't matter if you're Femme, Stud, Androgynous or anything in between...grinding is for EVERYONE. If you are shy, you can be the bottom...if you are a freak, then you can be the top. GRINDING is never shown in porn (mostly because guys who produce porn don't even realize it exists) even though it is the hottest thing in the world to see...It's not just wet, it's beyond wet, beyond messy, beyond rough, beyond wild...it's awesommmme! And this is how not only you hit a Home run, but your lover does too...all at the same time. How fair is that!!

FUCKING

I think Fucking is either describing Grinding or it can be used to describe the use of strap-ons. Strap-on sex is a whole 'nother world that I have never fully grasped. The reason, I don't like this, is it makes me feel like I'm trying to emulate a straight relationship and straight sex. There is a reason I'm a lesbian and it's because I like Lesbian sex and love the clit, not the rubber penis and the hole. But I'm definitely not knocking it...I have a feeling this is more fun for the one with the strap on on...powerful...penis envy relief...in control. For the one taking it...you must like just straight in and out penetration. And this probably works best for those that can cum from penetration alone. Both people don't cum at the same time, so I'm on the fence about saying this is a complete Home run...maybe I should edit Grinding to be a Grand Slam and Strap-On Fucking is a regular Home run!!

Oh, the choices...oh the fun...oh the temptation. From 1st base to Grand Slam, lesbian sex is amazing, addictive and beautiful :)

How "LESBIAN" are you? Gold, Silver, Bronze??

In the spectrum of the Lesbian World, how Lesbian are you?

This question is brought up a lot in the Lesbian world to rate whether or not you are really and truly a lesbian or just passing time in the homo world. Apparently I'm what you call a Silver Star Lesbian...one that started out with Men for several years, until I was ready to come out. I made this transition at the end of my 21's...I had my first woman experience, thought my life was fulfilled and perfect and complete and then BAM!!! she hurt me, she played me and she made me fall for her all in the short 2 months that I dated her...Typical of the Lesbian world, but for me...as a newbie, I was totally not used to that roller coaster speed and when I got hurt, it made me reevaluate if I was really really ready to take on this lifestyle. When I was with guys for years, I never felt connected nor as strong to them as I did in those 2 months with the girl I dated...and not being as connected gives you logic and control of your feelings. With guys I was in control of my feelings and reactions. My relationships did not define me, they did not control me...I was extremely independent. So with this first girl (Lesbian) experience, it got me scared, SUPER scared that with all this new satisfaction and fulfillment that I'd lose TOTAL control of my feelings and scared that I'd fall in the deepest type of love that I'd ever experience before. TOO MUCH LOVE EQUALS TOO MUCH PAIN...I knew that if I enveloped my life as a lesbian that 2 things were certain. 1. I'd fall in the deepest love I'd ever fallen in before and 2. When the relationship ended, I'd hurt more than I'd ever hurt before. What a cause and effect to look forward to. After this first Lesbian relationship ended in chaos as most do, I tried my very best to date a guy again and tried my very best to convince myself that I'd like it. I tried to make this relationship into the same ebb & flow of the girl relationship I just had. I took him to dinner, I bought him endless gifts and clothes...I spoiled this idiot and he milked me for everything I had. But, even though I couldn't connect with him...I was in control of my feelings...all of my feelings. After about a month and realizing he was not a girl and never would be...haha...I ended it and since then have never looked back at guys again. Hence, I got the Silver Star Lesbian Card.

And now fast forward, 8 years later, and my fiance, Lucky Girl is a Gold Star Lesbian and can high five herself for being more of a lesbian than me. My Silver Star Lesbian status has her question my credibility...has her question whether I'm gonna go back...and probably gives her trust issues with my guy friends. I actually would give anything to have known who I was pre-puberty, so that I could have experienced all the ups and downs of a lesbian relationship before I was an adult. Starting out as a Lesbian in my 20s made me feel like I went thru dumb 'ole awkward puberty all over again. Now, I can kinda see why Gay Men who come out later in life if their 40s or more start acting immature and start chasing after 18 barely legal guys. I keep thinking it's cuz they are gay and a little perverted going after young boys. BUT, now I'm thinking it's really cuz mentally, their gay side hasn't had 20+ years to mature, as the rest of their body has.

Well, anyways, Silver Star Lesbian...Gold Star Lesbian...why do we have a hypocritical view for Lesbians that have been with men in the past, like...."ew, you're gonna go back..you're not really a lesbian"...but yet, we don't taunt the old man that decided to come out gay after being married to a woman for 25 years. We don't say to him "ew, I don't believe you're really gay...you're gonna go back to women, I just know it." Isn't he a Silver Star Gay guy too? If he has earned his stripes into Gay-Dom...then I have too Damnit!!!