COMING OUT...what is the big deal?!

Ok, so I keep seeing this big headlines of Celebrities that come out...and it's not ever from celebrities that have hid it well. It's from Celebrities that are so obviously gay, but spend much of their career denying it and avoiding officially COMING OUT. What is the big deal already, all gays know your gay, stop wasting so much energy denying it and making it a bigger deal than it is...and just come out with it already! I mean I don't care if you choose not to come out, but denying it to then later come out is DUMB! It's one thing to have family members who will disown you and avoiding it to protect your family, but if your family supports you and has known your whole life, why do you care what the public thinks?

From Clay Aiken to Lindsay Lohan to those we are still waiting on to just come out already...why do you make it such a big deal to come out? You make Gay People feel as though your ashamed and you make the public start putting a bad connotation on being gay. And the silly part is, is that it seems like you may avoid coming out because you think you will lose your fans...Do you not get how much support you will get from the Gay Community. Screw all those fans that won't support you if you are gay, there are tons of new Gay Fans that you WILL attract that will stick with you thru and thru and be way more faithful than any fickle trendsetter.

Alicia Keys, Queen Latifah, Kevin Spacey, Ryan Seacrest...you guys keep avoiding the questions, you keep thinking that we believe you have been single for 10 years and that you want to keep your private life private...You are making your sexuality a bigger deal by hiding it. And you are keeping America in the dark about how beautiful and successful Gay people are. I mean ok, so people in San Fran are open minded and people in NYC are open minded and most big cities, but unfortunately, as you can tell by how Bush gets elected over and over, this country is not run by the liberal open-minded people. As much as I hate to admit it, it is run by Middle America...and guess what...this Lesbian knowsssssss Middle America, cuz I grew up there. But as soon as I grew a brain I left and never went back...which is what most Gay People from Middle America do, which is why Middle America's views NEVER change on Gay People. Because all the Gay people leave. Celebrities need to give Middle America a good Gay Role Model to relate to. I mean since all Gay people leave, they have nothing to relate to and think that all Gay People are perverse and pedophiles and butchy if they are a lesbian and femmy if they are a gay guy. Show them that we are here...we are everywhere and that we are amazing!